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10 FULLPROOF WAYS TO START A CONVERSATION WITH ANYONE

Anyone who has been caught at a wedding reception or a cocktail party discussing changes in global warming understands that small talk isn’t as simple as it seems. Conversations with strangers can be awkward, stiff, and even painful. However, there is an art to it that can be mastered.

“A golden rule is that you don’t have to be great; you just have to be kind,” says Bernardo J. Carducci 

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Have you ever come across an extrovert and thought, “Wow!” How easy is it for them to make acquaintances and strike up a discussion with practically anyone and everyone in a room full of strangers? To be blunt, extroverts aren’t geniuses with all the knowledge in the world. We’re just a group of self-assured people who dared to stroll across the room, stop at the most friendly face, and the rest is history! Today, I’m shifting from the ambivert to the introvert spectrum. And I will be helping you with some short ice-breaker conversation tips, addressing the elephant in the room!

You’ve introduced yourself, and you know the other person’s name, but now what? How do you keep the conversation going? Give a shot to these 10 tried-and-true conversation starters:

  1. Ace Introductions:

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Introducing individuals with ease is the ultimate mark of a competent and pleasant small talker. In addition to teaching names, offer information about each person or a common interest to spark a conversation.

  1. Listen more than you speak:
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People enjoy being the centre of attention. So, even if you’re a terrific conversation starter, remember to be a great listener. That entails thinking of excellent small-talk topics, such as their favourite hobbies or where they want to go on vacation. Or something as straightforward as how lovely their lip shade is or where they bought it from? 

  1. Stay Positive: 
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Nobody enjoys being surrounded by negativity. So, even if you can’t tolerate the sight of someone or something, the key is to keep your dignity intact and be careful how you express yourself. Or perhaps don’t? Discuss the things you believe in or that are true to your personality. No matter how well you get along with someone on the first encounter, it is not a good idea to jump to conclusions and trust them with your secrets!

  1. Offer some self-deprecating humour: 
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Even the most self-conscious individual in the room will feel at ease in your presence if you have some modest, self-deprecating humour to offer. When you’re in an embarrassing circumstance, you can say something like, “I’m no Einstein, so I don’t have an answer to this” Just let your thought process flow, and I’m pretty sure you’ll slay!

  1. Compliment:
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People, as previously stated, like it when the road is in their favour. So, if you actually enjoy it, the safe bet would be to compliment their ensemble or something from your surroundings. Remember that it is pretty easy to decode bogus comments. So, if you wish to make connections that last, it is best to stay true to yourself when giving compliments or praising your surroundings.

  1. Ask about their plans: 
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You’ve most likely heard this one before. The goal is to enquire about the other person’s plans without being excessively interrogative or meddling. Instead of asking them what their plans are straight after the event, try something more informal like, ‘A long weekend is coming up, how do you plan to spend it?’

  1. Analyse Personalities:
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There’s sure to be a lemon in every group of beautiful people you meet at a party. Type 1 is the individual who has met you multiple times but acts as if they have never seen you before. Type 2 encroaches on your personal space. Type 3 won’t stop talking about themselves and hasn’t asked you a question. While all three types of people are unquestionably outstanding individuals with far more to offer than we can imagine. It is critical to analyse personalities and select your tribe for the evening

8. Offer help: 

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If you see someone struggling with something, most likely because they are carrying too many things, offer assistance along the way. Conversations do not always have to be verbal; they can also be gestural.

Another approach to helping someone is having difficulties with investments or learning a new skill. And you happen to be aware of it, or you know someone who can assist them, offer them assistance. Allow it to slide smoothly rather than push it.

9. Don’t fear silence: 

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When there’s a pause in the conversation, don’t freak out. Silences don’t last as long as you think they do. Keep in mind that if you say something, the other person may need time to process it. Consider silence as a transition. 

Allow the other person to flee if you perceive that they are desperate. Otherwise, use one of the above tactics to steer the conversation in a new direction.

10. Don’t hold back details: 

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Begin the conversation by providing something for the other person to work with—don’t scrimp on the details. For example, if you’re asked what you do for a living, don’t give the short response, which forces the other person to look for more small-talk questions. For instance, if someone asks what you’ve been up to, say something like, ‘We took the kids trekking this year.’ They now know you have children and enjoy trekking.

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Whatever conversation opener you employ, remember to always smile, speak clearly and confidently, and look your new acquaintance in the eyes. Most people will remember how you made them feel rather than what was said, so act engaged and genuinely listen to what they’re saying to make the best impression. 

While I realise that this trip is not as simple as it appears here. The key to success, though, is to get started. Making contacts and starting engaging discussions will go a long way if you take small baby steps at a time.

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