Manifestation is the process of making your desired reality a reality through your beliefs, faith, and actions. Everyone wishes to find their true love. Aside from a million dollars and possibly a private yacht, the number one thing people want to manifest is obvious: true love. However, whether you can use manifestation to attract a special someone into your life is debatable. While many people dismiss the concept as new-age nonsense. There is no better way to find your soulmate than to manifest love. Your unwavering faith can bring you closer to your soulmate, and the universe can send you signals to help you figure out who that person is.
You have the freedom to be, do, and have whatever you want. The trick is to believe it is possible. When you do, everything else will fall into place.
Here are the 5 necessary steps to manifesting the partner you’ve always desired. Follow these steps, keep your eye on the prize, and you can have anything you want.
Ask yourself what you want in a partner
To begin, consider what you want in a partner and a relationship. You should be certain of what you truly desire. Don’t think about how you’ll get such a person. Simply concentrate on what you want in a soulmate. Make a list of the qualities and values you want your partner to represent. You can also list the physical characteristics you want your potential partner to have.
Confident? Reliable? Honest? Adventurous?
You have the option of naming 5 top-priority values or 30. Whatever tickles your fancy. Wherever your imagination takes you. The key is to follow your gut instincts and honest feelings about what you truly want, rather than on a surface egoistic level.
You can even take it a step further. What are your best qualities, or what would your ideal partner bring out in you?
Embody wanted quantities
The practice now enters the picture.
When you’re finished, go over each trait one by one and consider whether you embody those qualities.
Do you want to be known for your integrity or your loyalty? Do you have those characteristics? Can your friend describe you as sincere and dependable?
Take on those emotions. You don’t need a partner to be happy. Without the need for an external condition, you can become the emotion you desire.
Do you want a partner who is self-assured? Reflect your self-assurance through your posture and by doing what is best for you rather than pleasing toxic people around you.
Do you want an exciting relationship? Accept boldness on your own terms. Take that trip on your own. Stop waiting for the ideal companionship to appear. Act as if you’re already in a relationship. You create a reality that reflects your personality.
Do not procrastinate. Accept new opportunities. Do not use social media to stalk your potential partner. Make your happiness right now. You must travel on your own. Go get that coffee on your own.
Forget about the list. Put it away, or tuck it between the pages of a favourite book.
Begin with yourself. Work on your life values. How do your thoughts and actions toward people, animals, and the planet reflect those priorities?
It all starts with you.
Believe you are worthy
Any manifestation requires a strong sense of self-worth.
Our deeply ingrained limiting ideas are what prevents us from raising our self-esteem. During our early years, they were implanted in our subconscious. With the passage of time, we have become more adept at filtering the world through those narrowing lenses.
What are the signs that our thoughts are sabotaging our manifestations?
By observing our surroundings, the people we interact with on a regular basis, the condition of our home, and our relationships with family. They provide us with valuable feedback.
Do you have daily squabbles with your parents?
Do you find your living conditions to be unsatisfactory?
Do you consider money to be something bigger than you?
Do you think it’s difficult to find honest people?
These are your limiting beliefs, which result in the creation of your reality. They will remain constant until you change your assumptions and perspective.
The same can be said for your beliefs about your own abilities.
Do you think you’re deserving of a loving and trusting relationship? Or are you convinced that you must earn this right? Your subconscious regards the dreamy relationship on the pedestal as an out-of-reach manifestation as long as you perceive it on the pedestal.
Doubt is a stumbling block.
Fear is a stumbling block.
Worry is a stifling emotion.
Fear suffocates the manifestation.
You have the vision, but it is meaningless unless it is fueled by the emotion of having and being it.
When doubt creeps in, your dream becomes just that: a dream. It’s all wishful thinking.
Affirmations of confidence and self-love should be played on a daily basis. Establish a sense of self-worth in your mind. Take action from a place of self-love. Define your boundaries. Take good care of yourself. Chant: On repeat, I allow myself to enter a healthy and balanced relationship.
Focus on yourself
After you’ve completed all of the above steps, your perfect person may “present” themselves to you. That sign is not to be overlooked. Make a difference. “Taking aligned action” means pursuing and saying “yes” to possible partners who have the attributes you want in your life, and “no” to those who don’t. Don’t engage or pursue someone who isn’t a good match for you.” That’s you telling the universe you want this type of person, and whether you like it or not, you’ll continue to attract more of them.
The last step is likely the most difficult. That the love you attract may not be what you expect, so be prepared for some surprises along the way. Surrendering is allowing love into your life without being attached to a specific outcome or person. Being a rigid, linear thinker doesn’t serve you. In fact, if you’re open to new romantic possibilities, the world may surprise you and introduce you to someone completely unexpected. You’ll look back ten years and realise why none of the others worked out. I mean, why not give it a shot?
So, try all these methods religiously and you’ll have the ideal partner you are looking for.
Tell me in the comment section whether these methods worked out for you. There’s no time limit on when it’ll work so be patient and don’t have second thoughts or negative thoughts about it. Start manifesting for that true love you’ve been dreaming about.